How to let your partner know you love him without actually saying it

Talk is cheap, that’s how the saying goes. Well, I am a big fan of honest couple communication, but I also like creativity and surprises. So why not take this year’s Valentine’s Day as an opportunity to say “I love you” without actually pronouncing it?

Here are some ideas of how to do it (works for both him and her):

– Leave a little note in his coat pocket. Remind him of a funny situation you had together, or tell him what you like most about him.

– Deliver his favorite food to his office – in person. Have a break together but respect if he is in a lack of time.

– In the old days I would have recommended to record a mix tape with songs that are linked to good memories that you two share with each other. Nowadays, why not make it a USB stick? Or even better, hide a playlist on his iPod, or send him a song via e-mail when he least expects it.

– Flirt with him. Forget that you have been a couple for so long (or maybe not so long) and relive the time when you first met and got to know each other. Make him compliments, pay him a drink, and dance with him. Shyly take his hand and let him wait to be kissed.

– Fulfill one of his sexual fantasies. In case you don’t know about any, just offer him to be his mistress (or slave?) for one night. Agree on a code word to interrupt your play at any time.

– Give him a sensual massage. You can either use massage oil that you warm up before use, or a lubricant. Lube is especially nice if you choose one with a nice scent or even taste. For the more adventurous among you, there are massage candles. The wax does not get too hot, so you can let the candle drop on your bodies and use the warm wax for a sexy massage.

– Offer your partner a calendar with sexy photos of yourself. A classic, I know, but it’s not only going to make him happy, but will also boost your ego. 😉

– Get a tattoo with your lover’s name – a fake one, of course! Your partner will be flattered, but probably also flattered you did not go for a real one.

So now that you have plenty of inspiration, get creative!

Love,

Nomi