The year 2009 is almost over. I hope you have some quiet and relaxing holidays awaiting you and your loved ones? Most likely you will have fixed your plans for these days by now, and maybe you are already wondering about your New Year’s Resolutions? The most common ones probably are to get fit and lose weight, spend less money and quit smoking. I agree that everyone should look after themselves and not mess too much with their bodies. Nevertheless New Year’s Eve should not become the day you abandoned all of life’s pleasures and became depressive because of extreme goals you set for your future.
So how about breaking the old pattern and taking on some more amusing and fun resolutions? You (and your partner) could for example try something new next year to spice up your intimate life. How about learning a new position from the Kamasutra every month, or introducing a new sensual accessory to your couple play? The possibilities are endless – lubricant to start with, cock rings for the more experienced, vibrators for the playful ones – and the payoff is immediate (contrary to such resolutions as to get back in shape).
If you still feel the need to settle for one of the classic resolutions, here is my advice:
1) Phrase your resolution as a positive statement: “I want to feel better about my body.” instead of “I have to get rid of these extra kilos.”
2) Stay realistic: Do not dream about model sizes and a perfect life – these only exist in the media after hours of image editing. Define milestones and reward yourself for every progress you make.
3) Focus. I guess you’ll agree that it is far better to succeed one small change in your lifestyle than to give up on five fantastic resolutions. Don’t you?
On this note, I just wish you a happy Christmas and all the best for 2010!
See you soon,
Nomi Tang
Nomi Tang 