Erogenous zones – The most pleasurable spots on your body

We all heard about them – but you might still be wondering where exactly these famous erogenous zones are on your and your partner’s body, and how to stimulate them in order to get high.

The erogenous zones I will point out for you in a second are generally the same for all humans. However, attempts at stimulating someone may or may not work depending on their personal sensitivity. Depending on previous experiences or cultural circumstances, some might even have adverse reactions. So while drawing your personal map of pleasure, keep communicating.

It will possibly drive you and your partner equally crazy if you lightly touch each other’s inner thighs, and you probably knew that already. However, it may come as a bit of a surprise for both of you, that women are really sensitive behind the knees! Also commonly recognized are the buttocks. Contrary to most other erogenous zones, stimulation can be a bit rougher here. Ask your partner to squeeze or softly spank your bum. If you are in the mood, you might even try anal sex (protection is crucial here to prevent unpleasant infections!).

To return the favor, try touching his P-spot, the perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus), to heighten the intensity of his orgasm. Another hot spot on your body is the neck. It works well together with sexy promises whispered in your ear and a tight grip on your hair to give you that “I want you sooooo badly!” feel. I bet you know what I’m talking about? 😉 And how about making him a little love bite as a souvenir of your hot play?

The soles of the feet are by far the most tickly area of many people’s body. Either you love being caressed there – or you hate it. However, the feet offer far more than just the sole to play around with! Do also pay attention to the toes – especially the toe tips. When it comes to hands, the finger tips are the most sensitive body part after the tongue! Many women also like being touched and kissed on the wrists, a fact that most men (and women!) ignore.

The three last erogenous zones I will mention are the classics: Breasts and nipples, the genitals, and the lips.
Surprisingly, when it comes to breasts, they have the same number of nerve endings no matter how large they are! This means, that smaller breasts are actually more sensitive, while larger breasts can be stimulated more forcefully. And of course, caressing the chest and paying particular attention to the nipples is also a very pleasurable experience for your male companion.

Did you know that many women are actually more sensitive on the lips than on their vagina and clitoris? But this is only the scientific finding. If your experience tells you otherwise, trust your own body and not the scientists! 😉

When it comes to men, the penis is the pleasure centre. Particularly, the head and foreskin, as well as the testicles. Whatever you do, be careful not to hurt his best part. And expect the same respect when it comes to your centre of lust. If he does not get it right the first time, guide him. It will enable you to have a more pleasurable experience, and I’m sure he will enjoy you being in command. 😉

So, now that you have a rough idea of where to explore your body to find erogenous zones, you might still be asking HOW to do so. Well, there are virtually endless possibilities. What feels good will differ from body part to body part, so experiment and communicate with your partner.

To start with, try some of these: touching, caressing, breathing, whispering, kissing, licking, sucking, biting… To make it even more exciting, use a feather to tickle, touch the skin with an ice cube (start on less sensitive parts!) or apply some warming or cooling lubricant to enhance the sensation.

I found a cute map online, where the most common erogenous zones are shown. It also comes with hints and tips on how to stimulate each zone, so have a quick look and start experimenting!

Yours,

Nomi